Toys For Lesbians

Ever since I was a little girl, I was a fan of cute things. If it was pink, fuzzy, or covered with hearts, flowers, of magic princesses, I definitely was bugging my mom for whatever it was. Could it me that I have just transferred my girly tastes from childhood to the world of adult toys that I lose so much now? LOL, I feel kind of funny even equating the two ideas!

Ever since I first heard of rabbit vibrator, I knew it would be for me. I like the ones that have beads that churn around in the middle, but what turns me on the most is how the rabbit ears tickle and flick.
Clitoral stimulation is really what does it for me. I have two rabbits now- one is a little bit big, but one is slimmer since I don’t really need anything too giant inside me most of the time. They are so cute! I think that’s what appeals to me most. Even if it’s for sex now that I’m all grown up, I still buy the cute little bunny rabbit thing.

I hate fingering myself; it is like the one way to guarantee I don’t have an orgasm. On top of that most of the girlfriends I’ve had don’t like being penetrated by fingers, period, whether they are doing it themselves or I am. My girlfriend and I both swear by the LELO clit massager, both for solo play and for our time together. It fits perfectly in the palm of your hand, sort of like an ergonomically designed computer mouse, and is meant strictly for the outside of your pussy- no penetration at all.

But I think the best part about it is that, out of all the lesbian sex toys I own, it is the only one that really doesn’t look like a sex toy. So I feel very comfortable carrying it around in my purse or putting it my desk drawer at work. Nothing improves a long workday better than taking a quick break and having an orgasm or two . . . (or three) before heading back to work.

I understand what you’re going through. It might surprise some of you to hear this but even we lesbians worry about staying tight. And considering that we seem to use more toys on each other (we love our lesbian sex toys, for sure!) I can assure you that as long as you are using plenty of lube you shouldn’t notice too much stretching. My girlfriend loves sex toys, the bigger the better, and she is probably tighter than I am.

If you are really worried though there are plenty of petite sized toys you can try. We both love anal toys and anal beads are incredible sex toys that can be small and still have a HUGE impact. Anal beads start off small and get progressively bigger, so you only have to go as far as you feel comfortable; it’s more about the tantalizing pulsating feeling they create then the size that gets you off. You could also try clitoral stimulators like clit suckers or vibrating panties, both are awesome sex toys that require no penetration whatsoever.

For many individuals, sex toys like dildos often look intimidating. If you don’t like the look or feel of silicone and rubber dildos, consider artistic glass dildos for your sexual pleasure. Hand-blown by glass artists, each glass dildo is as unique as you are. And, they are so beautiful, you’ll want to show it off!

Glass dildos are more than just a pretty object. Glass has many attributes that make it a great material for sex toys. Unlike silicone and rubber, glass doesn’t get fissures or wear out. It is easier to clean and disinfect, and is less likely to harbor infection-causing bacteria. Glass dildos can be boiled in water for disinfection.

Artistic glass dildos, like the Phallix Glass 24 Karat Double Happiness, can also be refrigerated or heated for personal pleasure, making them the most adaptable dildos around. Combining artistry with functionality is what these beauties are all about—which is why they make great gifts. Treat yourself or your lover to a glass dong and you’ll never regret it.

For many women, the orgasm is an elusive creature, rarely, if ever, experienced. While masturbation with dildos and vibrators can help, for many women penetration is not the key. If your sex partner is uncomfortable watching you with a dildo or vibrator, it can make reaching orgasm even more difficult.

Vibrating clitoral stimulation is the key many women seek to reaching orgasm and experiencing fulfilling sex lives. The Tuyo Vibromasseur offers luxury and pleasure, in an artistic form. It is a sphere, designed to be attractive and non-threatening, making it a great clitoral stimulator for couples who are new to sex toy play. An added bonus of the Tuyo Vibromasseur is that its shape allows it to double as a massager for any body part, on anybody. Relaxation plays a big role in reaching orgasm, and you can start this artistic sphere at your shoulders and work its way down.

I have been meaning to say a little bit about my lover Cathy. It’s kind of a weird situation. We have been lovers since college so we have a long history, but since then we haven’t spent a ton of time together. Our lesbian love connection spans many years, but for reasons of distance and time, does not include frequent physical contact. We are hoping to rectify that, so we’ve set out to do some real exploration together.

We had a conversation over some wine the other night, and Cathy told me some of the things I may not have known that turned her on. She is really into spanking. She likes to give and receive and even lent me a video about an artist who does sexy drawings of women getting spanked. She also gets especially hot for gay male porn-which I knew-bit I didn’t know that she likes interracial scenes the best.

I told her a few of my favorite things – less about fetish and more just about how I like my body caressed and licked. We took a long, sweet time reacquainting in bed. A few of my good spanking swats landed on her beautiful ass. She seemed to love it, and we are looking forward to revisiting that when we’ve got all night.

I was just invited to a Bachelorette party for a lesbian co-worker that has a lesbian sex toy theme. The brides requested that if we wanted to bring a gift we stick to the theme and make sure it was a lesbian sex toy. I don’t even know what makes a lesbian sex toy different from a regular sex toy- help!

I’m straight but am throwing a Bachelorette party for my lesbian best friend. I want to do something a little racy, I know she is totally into lesbian sex toys and wants a very naughty night out, but I’m a bit stumped. We live in a very conservative area and I’m worried there could be some trouble if we went to a strip club featuring women. Any ideas?

I don’t think that’s weird at all. I hate fingering myself; it is like the one way to guarantee I don’t have an orgasm. On top of that most of the girlfriends I’ve had don’t like being penetrated by fingers, period, whether they are doing it themselves or I am. My girlfriend and I both swear by the LELO clit massager, both for solo play and for our time together. It fits perfectly in the palm of your hand, sort of like an ergonomically designed computer mouse, and is meant strictly for the outside of your pussy- no penetration at all.

But I think the best part about it is that, out of all the lesbian sex toys I own, it is the only one that really doesn’t look like a sex toy. So I feel very comfortable carrying it around in my purse or putting it my desk drawer at work. Nothing improves a long workday better than taking a quick break and having an orgasm or two . . . (or three) before heading back to work.

I understand what you’re going through. It might surprise some of you to hear this but even we lesbians worry about staying tight. And considering that we seem to use more toys on each other (we love our lesbian sex toys, for sure!) I can assure you that as long as you are using plenty of lube you shouldn’t notice too much stretching. My girlfriend loves sex toys, the bigger the better, and she is probably tighter than I am.

If you are really worried though there are plenty of petite sized toys you can try. We both love anal toys and anal beads are incredible sex toys that can be small and still have a HUGE impact. Anal beads start off small and get progressively bigger, so you only have to go as far as you feel comfortable; it’s more about the tantalizing pulsating feeling they create then the size that gets you off. You could also try clitoral stimulators like clit suckers or vibrating panties, both are awesome sex toys that require no penetration whatsoever.