Toys For Lesbians

Lots of (straight) people assume that just because I’m a lesbian I don’t like being penetrated. But, just like there are no known limits to straight sex, gay sex and lesbian sex toys are just as varied. Sure, I’ve come across a few lesbians in my day that don’t like penetration but plenty of us girls love it!
My favorite lesbian sex toy is my dildo that has the option of adding a harness to make it a lesbian strap on. I like the flexibility it offers. My girlfriend and I can use a lesbian dildo on each other at the same time and then I can put on the harness.

With the lesbian strap on I can fuck my girlfriend and still keep my hands free for ‘other’ activities. I definitely recommend buying a lesbian dildo and harness set that come packaged together. Packaged lesbian strap on sets just seem to have a more secure fit to me, so you have better control over the dildo. Buying the lesbian dildo and the strap on set takes some of the guess work out of shopping; there’s no worrying that your dildo isn’t going to fit your lesbian strap on.

“Please Angie,” Linda moaned as I continued to circle just the very tip of the dildo at her glopply lips.

My girlfriend’s juices were all but dripping down the crevices of her upper inner thighs as she spread there under me and I continued to poke at her with the toy. Try as she might, my cute little baby couldn’t not bear down. I knew the tortured precipice Linda was writhing over and having brought her to these points, in various ways through-out our combustive love-life, I smiled at how wet I was. Whether I was playing her ass with an anal probe, licking her clit as she came over and over, making her dress in skirts way too tight for her, what truly worked for me here, beyond the physical sensations and Linda’s moaning, was my assumption that my red-haired beauty with the impossibly rock hard ass wanted something so much…and at the same time did not want.

The pull of Linda’s brain loosing the fight over what her body ached for was what I lived for.

“Papaplease,” she continued to plead. “It’s too big, you know it’s too big.”

I didn’t know any such thing, as both Linda and I had picked out this particular dildo together, what the site had professed was the latest and best in their ‘realistic’ line and had used to on each other the past month with spectacular results. I knew that Linda needed to protest, she was one of those gay women who had to reject long phallic toys just to assert her lesbianism, sort of like a straight guy who professes that anal play will make him gay when everyone knows nothing could be sillier, just to comfort his swimming mind with the rationalization of what his body craves. Linda was a thirty-year old gay woman, as gay as me, a deep probing in her vag from a fake though real looking cock didn’t mean she wanted a real cock up her in the least. But I let her have her protests, her repulsion, simply because I knew, she knew that I knew she really wanted to be dildo-ed, she ached for a strap-on (or to be the one strapping-on) and it didn’t mean a hell of a beans where her sexuality was concerned.

“You deserve this and you know it,” I said and stuck the tip of the toy into her then. Linda gulped, but pushed down on me all the same.

Her little tits shook and I bent to give each nipple a lick then fed more of the dildo into my girlfriend.

“FUCK!” Linda shuttered and screamed as I came up and faced her. Poor girl was grinding on the futon.

“More,” I said. “More.”

“No Claire…FUCK NO!” she screamed, while spreading her thick legs even wider.

“You so love this, I know it,” I said, and pushing in more I got half the seven and half inches of toy up her.

I knew what was on the horizon, what I had to say to blow her mind, but I was reserving my last terrible torture for the very end of this, when Linda could take no more.

That we both knew what I would say made us even crazier (I was basically flooding in my thong sitting next to my girlfriend then).

“Look how nice you take that,” I said holding the end of the toy straight and true. Linda was attempting to wiggle up the couch and at the same time open her legs even wider.

I bent and licked each nipple again.

“A little more, a little more,” I said and pushed more of the dildo inside her.

“FUCK!” she really screamed then and crawled up the couch. Arching her back I thought maybe this was enough for her-sometimes I do wonder if I push the doming when I am doming. But then I looked down at the pretty flushed face under me, saw Linda bite her lower thick lip, her blue eyes widening in lust and ache and knew we were on the right track here.

“Look down at it Linda,” I said, using that last weapon in my arsenal, the very one thing I knew I could say to make her completely crazed.

“It’s ok, it’s what you want, what you need, look down,” I prodded.

Linda did look down, slowly, as if looking at a sexy picture of a dildo going into some pussy not her own.

“See that nice cock in your pussy?”

“No…no. Claire, Claire!”

“See such a nice cock in your beautiful pussy.”

“Claire, Claire,” she said looking up at me then, flashing real sexual terror in her eyes.

I knew I had her then.

Linda and I had plenty of toys; we even had what was called a few lesbian dildos. But for this outing, when I really wanted to fuck with her head as much as her pussy, I went for the realistic cock to really get her nice and fearful…which is what she wanted as much as me.

“I will not put anymore in you unless you look down and really consider that nice thick cock in you,” I said.

I caught the slight quiver of Linda’s lips as she tried to stifle a hint of a smile. She dipped her head, stared at my hand on the dildo, opened her thighs even wider. For seconds we stayed poised there then my girlfriend looked up and said:

“Give me the cock Claire, give me all of this beautiful cock up my pussy.”

Ah, I love realizations; I thought and pushed up in and true.

Jenny rolled over and woke with a start as her bare thigh tapped the downy bare hip next to her. A sudden heated realization flooded the blonde’s slowly waking synapses and she opened her right eye to spy the warm naked body lying face down next to her.

Suddenly a rush of images rushed at her: brushing by her new friend Kim as they went to make their way into the hallway, a split second acknowledgement then the two women kissing; clothes being lifted and shucked as Jenny and Kim rolled back into Jenny’s condo, the girls sprawling on the couch; Jenny pulling Kim’s perfect thong-ed ass over her lap and spanking the twenty two year-old ten times while both women squealed with delight; Jenny and Kim bending to Jenny’s bottom dresser draw and snickering over all the sex toys inside it, Jenny producing her favorite dildo and advising a wide-eyed Kim that: “Yes, _there are_ some strictly lesbian sex toys.”; the fast and violent way Kim had come twice when Jenny went down on her, attacking the smaller girl’s clit with a tongue lashing just this side of furious; Jenny rubbing her pussy up against Kim’s little ass and coming so hard her whole long-limbed body shook while Kim masturbated right along with her.

Yeah, now Jenny remembered, that was what had happened last night.

Rolling off the cute little girl in her bed, carefully extricating her own naked body from off her lover, Jenny went to her bathroom and took just as much time settling her mind as she did attending to the usual business.

Kim was wide awake when Jenny reappeared. Propped up on her right elbow, one big breast almost fully in view shmushed against the sheet, the girl in the bed shook her bobbed-haired head and smiled wide.

“Hi,” she said.

“Hi,” Jenny managed, still standing.

“You coming back to bed?” Kim asked and rolled onto her back so her big chest was revealed fully. Jenny’s eyes of course went to the woman’s perfect round tits and hard nipples.

Christ could Kim really be all this cool about last night, Jenny wondered.

“Maybe we should talk a little?” Jenny asked and then did sit down at the edge of the bed.

“I’m cool,” Kim said, still on her back, the sheet just up over her belly button. Jenny was sure she had never seen a sight so alluring; a perfectly poised, full-breasted twenty two year-old Philippino girl lying in her bed, seemingly ready for more fun. 

“I mean, you know that was my first time,” the smaller girl continued. “I mean, I’m not a lesbian, or at least I don’t really think I am…”

“..well, I…” Jenny started and lay down on her side to scuttle up close to Kim.

The women began kissing then as Jenny moved her hand over to play with Kim’s left tit…then her right.

“Jesus Christ,” Kim said breaking form the kiss. “You get me so hot.”

“Back at ya girl,” Jenny said, still circling Kim’s right nipple between her thumb and middle finger.

“I mean, I tried some stuff in high-school, you know how girl’s kinda experiment…” (yes, Jenny knew damn well how some girls did indeed experiment…though Jenny’s ‘experiments’ with other women had stuck!) “…but you really, well…Jesus Christ, you really can eat pussy!”

Jenny rolled off Kim then and both girls laughed.

“You wanna…maybe…” Kim continued, moving to face Jenny then. “Wanna maybe use some of those toys you showed me last night?”

Both women instinctively looked across the room at Jenny’s dresser drawer.

“You really are taking to all this, huh?” Jenny said. “I thought you said you weren’t gay. Your cousin Jackie’ll kill me ya know if she finds out I’m the girl who introduced you to lesbian sex.”

“Well I am sure you and she had your moments in college,” Kim snickered.

Jenny wasn’t about to reveal a thing about Kim’s cousin’s escapades-_mainly_ hetero though they had been-there had been moments when…

“You really wanna try one of my toys?” Jenny said, hoping to change the subject of Kim’s cousin, the person who had connected Jenny and Kim to hang out for a day…a day that had flowed now into the next day.

“That fake cock kinda got to me,” Kim said and leaned into kiss Jenny. “It looked nice and smooth.”

“Yeah well, it’s a lesbian dildo, really,” Jenny assured the pretty young girl. “Like you said, smooth, but you know, large enough.”

Saying this Kim undulated on the bed and threw the sheet off her pussy. Looking down Jenny knew this was an invitation.

The toys could wait, at least for a few seconds; Jenny rationalized, dipping her head to Kim’s warm wet bald pussy for another lapping.

I liked, nay, I was _obsessed_ with Mary’s bod. Petite, yet somehow thick all at the same time, the pale Chinese girl had these tits that were about the roundest I had ever seen and this ass…well, it was just as round! She was cute as a button to, but really it was that tight little body that kept me staring time and again, and maybe the fact that the Mary never wore a bra and these dangerous hip-hugging jeans 24/7.

Mary knew I looked, I was damn sure she liked that I looked and on occasion the brown-eyed sophomore would flash me more cleavage then she was already showing, or shake her ass at me as we parted for classes. It was all in good fun for her, I knew, but terribly teasing to me. In the year I had known Mary we were growing closer but I still couldn’t get a bead on where the girl was coming from.
Though the jury was still out on Mary’s sexuality, mine was ‘on the record’. Within our group of seven I was the resident lesbian; I had hooked-up with plenty of girls in my two years in college and good amount in high school (I even had a real steady girlfriend senior year, who taught me a thing or two about the wild and wacky word of lesbian sex toys). I could be found at any number of college parties usually necking (or at least flirting) with cute little freshman chicks or holding court with my friends, deliberately shocking them with tales of eating pussy or strap-on sex, though more often the not embellishing those retellings for their wagging tongues. But none of us ever heard Mary speak of a boyfriend or girlfriend, and since she was from another state entirely we had no knowledge of her life before she came to school with us (or at least only knowledge of what she had told us) and when a hot guy or girl sauntered by on our small college campus she more often than not gave both a look.
But it was getting to the point for me personally that I ached to know which side of the fence the little girl swung. I couldn’t see her this new semester without wondering, staring, fantasizing.
Was Mary just a merciless tease or did she really want more from me? I’d stayed up late nights thinking all sorts of naughty thoughts about the girl. The way I figured it, I could roll with being all close cuddles and soft kisses with the little girl or I could just as easily start biting her nipples and grind my pussy against that perfect little bubble butt of hers until we both begged for mercy. Whatever Mary’d be into I was down for.

I guess the pressure was building more than usual that day though. How or why I said what I said, I have no idea (or even care) but as we met that 9am at the student center coffee kiosk (say that three times fast!) I couldn’t help but stare down Mary’s shirt and made my first real pointed remark.

“They look especially perky today,” I said as we wrangled our coffees from the barrister.

“It’s a new top,” the brown-eyed girl said, looking up at me slightly. I had more than a couple inches on her and had always enjoyed the height advantage for this kind of a view.

I stared down at perfect alabaster cleavage just there ripe for the licking, her round tits settled and so firm in what had to be the thinnest T-shirt I had yet see her wear.

“A shirt like that is gonna get you in trouble someday.”

“I hope.”

I sipped.

She sipped.

“Really, that’s some view.”

“Glad you like it.”

I took a step back to drink her in. Mary smiled over the lip of her latte as I took my time accessing her. Why even try to hide it? She was flirting, wasn’t she?

I knew I was.

“Ever notice how my tops are getting tighter and more revealing?”

I swallowed a big gulp of my still-too-hot coffee.

“Getting daring in your old age?”

“Well, I wanted someone to notice.”

Now she gulped.

Ok, I’m not the smartest girl on the planet and I’m not the type of lesbian who sees all manner of homosexual potential in every meeting (straight girls and guys do this to). But Mary was being obvious, wasn’t she?

“Took you long enough,” I said smiling. She smiled too and tapped the side of my cup with her own.

“Well this would be like my second time with a girl. I had to tread lightly. I’m a little nervous.”

Ah, sweet naiveté in all its resplendent glory, I thought. I’d be able to introduce a whole host of nasty diversion to Mary, if she let me. If we lasted beyond the month it would take me to commit her naked body to memory, maybe I would even get out a few of my sex toys.

“Neither of us needs to go to our morning class today,” I said, and with my free hand I grabbed Mary’s arm and led her out the side door of the student center.

Of course I let her lead just long enough so I could spy her ass.

Since the rise of HIV in the 1980’s, sexually transmitted diseases have changed the global society. Where sex was thought of as “free and happy” in the 1960’s and 70’s and throughout the sexual revolution, the 80’s ushered in a new era of sex as “free and happy and unsafe”. Middle-class Caucasian women in their 30’s are the fastest growing group battling STD’s. People, let’s not allow the spread of life-altering and life-ending diseases to ruin sex for everyone. Let’s talk about sexual safety.

Most of us underwent excessively embarrassing Sexual Education in high school—you remember that class wherein they separated the girls from the boys and everybody had to practice putting condoms on bananas. Amidst the giggles and eye rolling, you hopefully learned an important lesson: have all the sex you want, just be safe and healthy about it. I know it makes you uncomfortable to think about it, but Mrs. Johnson was right, although we can all agree that her campy sweaters were all wrong. Thanks to the caring, seriously underpaid teachers, most of us are now pretty comfortable using condoms, and live by the motto “Get it on, or there’ll be no getting off”.

But condoms don’t protect you when you’re playing nice and going down on your hot girl date. It is important to protect your sensitive oral cavity from sexually transmitted diseases like HIV, herpes, or warts (seriously, you do NOT want warts or herpes all over your mouth; not only is it uncomfortable, but you won’t be getting any action for a long while). Enter the Latex Dental Dam. Simply cover the pussy with this thin sheet of flavored latex, and you can give or receive all night long.

Most often found in the lesbian sex toy section, dental dams work like this: remove the sheet of latex from the packaging. Place over anus or vagina, being careful to cover the entire area. It is important to be careful that only one side of the latex sheet comes in contact with the anus or vagina—if you remove the dam for other play, it is best to simply trash it and get out a new one when you need it.

It is important to note that latex dental dams offer more than just sexual safety and prevent the spread of disease. For those who really don’t like the taste of pussy, or have reservations about flossing with hair from down-there, dental dams come in a variety of flavors like strawberry and grape. These flavored safety nets will help both persons enjoy cunnilingus to the fullest climax.

By now you’ve probably heard all about rabbit-style vibrators—those fuckers are so great, they merit their own category. Well, the bunny love just got better with a lesbian strap on that features a vibrating rabbit for clit stimulation!

Doc Johnson has brought a gift to the world with the iVibe Rabbit Harness Strap-On. It’s your classic rabbit vibrator, complete with rotating head and bead-filled shaft for awesome G-spot stimulation, and a vibrating rabbit clit stimulator. But this rabbit attaches to a soft rubber harness for ultimate fucking pleasure. The only problem is that she’s going to love it so much; you’ll have a hard time getting your turn! Straight women will be begging their men to try it (which brings up an entire other dual-penetration fantasy).

Of course, most dildos with a flared base can be used with strap-on harnesses. Harnesses come in two variations—thong style (like the Bare As You Dare Harness), or jock strap style. A lot of people prefer thong style harnesses as they often offer better stability.

If you and your lesbian partner both enjoy penetration, consider using a dual-dildo lesbian strap-on kit like the Vibrating Dual Penetrix Strap-On. With this fucker, you can be a giver and a very happy receiver.

Well, the first thing to do when fisting a girl is talk about it, and make sure that she likes penetration and is open to trying fisting. The human fist is considerably larger than most dildos, so a partner who is new to fisting may be nervous, and may experience discomfort. If it hurts and she wants you to stop, it is important that you stop immediately. Fisting may be fun, but this is your partner—you don’t want to lose her trust and hurt her physically and emotionally.

So, you’ve both decided that fisting is the thing to try. While the vaginal walls are capable of opening wide enough to accommodate a fist, they aren’t likely to be ready participants. You will need to start by heightening her arousal and really get her juices flowing. Turn your girl on by whatever you know works; take out the trash, do the dishes, lick her eager clit. You get the idea.

Once she’s raring and ready to go, lube up your entire fist thoroughly. Just as men need condoms to protect against STD’s, a latex glove will help protect you and your partner during fisting. Start to enter her with just a few fingers at first, playing with her the whole time to keep her relaxed and happy. The vaginal opening is small, so you need to play with it to relax those muscles and put your fingers together with your thumb, almost like you’re making an alligator hand puppet. Ease it in slowly. A bit of clit licking while you’re down there will probably be appreciated.

Keeping your knuckles turned toward her rear while you gently pump up and down or rotate your fist around will offer pleasant stimulation. Communications is key here—if she’s uncomfortable, get out of there as carefully and quickly as possible. As long as you’re both comfortable and having fun, try different techniques to get her going. Before long, your lesbian lover might be calling your fist her favorite lesbian sex toy!

Many lesbians enjoy tribadism—the act of rubbing your vulva (or crotch in general) against part of your partner’s body. Hips, legs, arms, pubic and tailbones are all good contact locations for tribadism. Done with clothing on, you don’t even have to worry about sexually transmitted diseases!

For lesbians who don’t like penetration, but do enjoy tribadism, consider using a bullet vibrator. A bullet vibrator is small enough to maneuver outside the body. Turn it on and put it in contact with your clit for great stimulation. For use during tribadism, ask your partner to secret the bullet vibe inside her clothes, like in her hip pocket. If you are doing crotch to crotch tribadism, you can both enjoy the bullet by having one partner put it between her underwear and pants.

If you are using a bullet for tribadism, a wireless bullet is probably best—who needs wires getting in the way! Something along the lines of the Waterproof 7 Function Remote Egg will allow the vibrating bullet to be secreted in a pocket or other area of clothing, while either partner controls the vibration speed and intensity with the wireless remote control.

Tickling panties, like the Remote 3-Speed Sapphire Thong, make great lesbian sex toys, and offer vibrating clit stimulation that both partners can enjoy during crotch to crotch tribadism. If you don’t like the look of panties with a built-in vibe, consider the Vibrating Panty Pal Purple Star. It magnetically attaches to any panties, and for clit to clit tribadism, it will add a new level of stimulation and fun.

Of course, the first rule of enjoying your first lesbian encounter is pretty much the same as any sexual encounter: communication is key. Be open to listening to your partner and relaying to her what feels good to you. Now that your head is on squarely, let’s figure out just how to begin.

Books and videos can be screened before the big night to educate yourself on what to expect, and what might be expected of you. The Whole Lesbian Sex Book by Felice Newman has long been touted one of the best educational and supportive tomes on the subject of lesbian sex. For heterosexual women considering taking a dip in the ladies’ room, Women Loving Women by Jamye Waxman not only addresses the lesbian sex encounter, but also discusses the effects of such on a pre-existing heterosexual relationship.

Videos also offer a lot in the way of sex education. For the heterosexual woman considering a lesbian tryst, Nina Hartley’s Guide for the Bi-Curious Woman will explain what to expect in a lesbian sex encounter, complete with visual aides for your learning pleasure. The Women Loving Women DVD promises to educate on the best techniques for pleasuring a woman, regardless of the partner’s gender.

So, you’ve educated yourself and now you’re ready to try out your new skills. If you are sheepish about your first lesbian encounter, or your first sexual encounter with a new partner, consider some lesbian sex toy games. Games offer an intriguing way to ease into the act all the while having fun and getting the passion heated up. Exxxtasy Erotic Game for Women Only offers great ways to turn foreplay into a whole evening’s fun. If you get stuck during the act and can’t figure out what positions to try, Lesbian Sex Cards offer suggestions on sexual positions and fun acts to perform with your partner. Like sexual encounter, lesbian sex is all about partnering and pleasuring.

Usually when people think of anal sex they think of gay men. People need to expand their horizons a little. Anal sex is for everyone, straights and lesbians included! My girlfriend and I have been using anal sex toys for a few years now. We both agree that we’ve had the strongest longest orgasms of our life using anal sex toys on each other.

I hate giant anal sex toys (though Beth loves them. The more extreme the better, naughty girl), but I have definitely found that anal beads make me cum every time. I also keep one smaller dildo just for anal play. Beth and I have found one that comes with a detachable harness, which means she can wear it as a strap on and use it on me, or I can pull it apart and use it on myself. 

Anal sex feels good. You wouldn’t believe how good unless you’ve tried it yourself. And that goes double for lesbian anal sex. My girlfriend has the amazing ability to hit my G spot (indirectly of course, but it still feels good) with anal sex toys. Just don’t forget the lube!