Toys For Lesbians

When it comes to lesbian sex toys the most popular is probably the lesbian dildo. But, if you’ve taken a look I’m sure you know, there are so many choices it’s hard to know what the best lesbian dildo is for you. Some things to think about when shopping for a lesbian dildo:

Size: Lesbian dildos come in many, many sizes. Get one too small and it might not do much for you (unless you are very good at maneuvering it to hit your g spot). One that is too big will hurt. Experiment before buying. Using your fingers to gauge how deep you like to be penetrated and how much girth is comfortable for you can help you decide what size lesbian dildo is the right size.

Material: Dildos can be made from just about anything; rubber, silicone, glass, ect. Silicone retains body heat when you use it, is fairly soft to the touch, and is easy to clean so it is one of the more popular materials for lesbian dildos to be made out of.

Use: Are planning on using your dildo by holding it in your hand or do you think you want a lesbian dildo that can be put into a harness to keep your hands free? A lesbian strap on (harness and dildo set) is a little more pricey but is a very versatile lesbian sex toy because the dildo can usually be detached from the harness and used by hand.

Okay so where was I? Yes, at the curb…

I looked at her and with a very grave face I asked, “Are you sure you know what you’re doing?”

“No,” she replied. “But I was hoping you could show me.”

Her face was so demure so afraid of my rejection. It, she, was not only perfectly coy and irresistibly vulnerable, her face and every bit of innocent energy that danced about her was, sexy.

“Okay, Come on then,” I said with a smile. “You lead the way.”

In the few short blocks it took to get to her apartment she told me of her journey, her struggles, to make it to NY from a little town and a less than understanding family in Tennessee. I shared my story of a Jersey girl who finally made it over the bridge. We got to her building and upon entering the elevator, she suddenly got quiet, the realness of this was sinking in I think and I wasn’t sure if she would be okay. I remembered how uncomfortable it was for me, my first time and I knew she must be anxious and a little scared even. We reached her floor and the doors slid open, we stepped out and she rummaged nervously through her bag for the door key.

“Is this okay? We don’t have to go in.” I offered her an out, but she replied without words. Just the successful revelation of the key and a quick turning of the lock, the creeky noise of a Lower East side door hinge and a tiny apartment lit greenly by the digital display of her coffee maker. She turned around and hummed a laugh in my direction grabbing my arms and pulling me through the door…

Whether you call it tribadism, scissoring, tribbing, bumping or any one of the dozens of different slang terms out there, there is a lot to say for it! Tribadism is when you and your partner rub your vulvas against each other in a form of mutual masturbation. Often times you rub vulva to vulva, but the practice can include any body parts, and any positions needed to reach those body parts, which get you off.

Tribadism is especially popular with lesbians who don’t like being penetrated. But that doesn’t mean it can’t be one more technique used by you and your partner even if you both like penetration and use something like a lesbian strap on during your love making.

The other common misconception about tribadism is that it cannot be done in use with lesbian sex toys. Many lesbians enjoy using anal toys like butt plugs at the same time they engage in tribadism because a putt plug does not need to be manipulated to get pleasure out of it. Once you insert the butt plug anal toy you are free to do whatever else you like. The anal toys can indirectly stimulate your g spot while you get clitoral stimulation from the tribadism.

Many lesbians feel like all the sex toys out there are made for straight couples and that all the anal toys are made with gay male couples in mind, but the truth is that there is a growing market of lesbian sex toys available on the market and that plenty of other sex toys can be used and enjoyed by lesbians as well.

Anal toys for lesbians aren’t usually specifically for lesbians, but that doesn’t mean you can’t find one you and your girlfriend will like. Anal toys come in a variety of styles, but just as importantly, they come in a variety of materials and colors so you can find the one that suits you best.

Anal toys like butt plugs can be a simple unobtrusive way to add to your usual love making. Once the butt plug is inserted you are free to engage in tribadism, vaginal or clitoral stimulation, or whatever else you can think up. The key to making your lesbian anal toys as fun to use as possible is the addition of ample amounts of lubrication. Because the anus does not self lubricate like the vagina will you will probably have to apply lube several times in the course of your play.

Sexy is a word I reserve for the rarest of individuals. For an aberration from the every day men and women of the workaday world. Sexy is more than a word, it is a crown to be set upon the head of the royal, and as we all know, a crown should only be worn by one king, or in this case one queen.

She started working at my office three weeks ago. A slight girl who smells of vanilla beans and innocence. We began going out after work together and in time I made her aware of my own sexuality; she blushed and smiled in response, “I know, you’re gay.” I would have expected her to make some well intended comment after that to dismiss the obvious flirtation between us but she said nothing. If anything it only served to intensify the playful hand touching and half raised eyelids. She wasn’t a straight girl just playing with me, she was interested and I knew it.

We talked on, through a last sip or two of our wine and made our way out to the street. I immediately stepped to the curb to hail a cab as I was used to doing after our drinks, but she stopped me before I could flag down the yellow machine and said, “Don’t get a cab, we can walk to my place from here”….

That’s it for now I have to run, but I’ll be back to continue the story later on.