I was just invited to a Bachelorette party for a lesbian co-worker that has a lesbian sex toy theme. The brides requested that if we wanted to bring a gift we stick to the theme and make sure it was a lesbian sex toy. I don’t even know what makes a lesbian sex toy different from a regular sex toy- help!
I’m straight but am throwing a Bachelorette party for my lesbian best friend. I want to do something a little racy, I know she is totally into lesbian sex toys and wants a very naughty night out, but I’m a bit stumped. We live in a very conservative area and I’m worried there could be some trouble if we went to a strip club featuring women. Any ideas?
I don’t think that’s weird at all. I hate fingering myself; it is like the one way to guarantee I don’t have an orgasm. On top of that most of the girlfriends I’ve had don’t like being penetrated by fingers, period, whether they are doing it themselves or I am. My girlfriend and I both swear by the LELO clit massager, both for solo play and for our time together. It fits perfectly in the palm of your hand, sort of like an ergonomically designed computer mouse, and is meant strictly for the outside of your pussy- no penetration at all.
But I think the best part about it is that, out of all the lesbian sex toys I own, it is the only one that really doesn’t look like a sex toy. So I feel very comfortable carrying it around in my purse or putting it my desk drawer at work. Nothing improves a long workday better than taking a quick break and having an orgasm or two . . . (or three) before heading back to work.
I understand what you’re going through. It might surprise some of you to hear this but even we lesbians worry about staying tight. And considering that we seem to use more toys on each other (we love our lesbian sex toys, for sure!) I can assure you that as long as you are using plenty of lube you shouldn’t notice too much stretching. My girlfriend loves sex toys, the bigger the better, and she is probably tighter than I am.
If you are really worried though there are plenty of petite sized toys you can try. We both love anal toys and anal beads are incredible sex toys that can be small and still have a HUGE impact. Anal beads start off small and get progressively bigger, so you only have to go as far as you feel comfortable; it’s more about the tantalizing pulsating feeling they create then the size that gets you off. You could also try clitoral stimulators like clit suckers or vibrating panties, both are awesome sex toys that require no penetration whatsoever.