Toys For Lesbians

Ever since I was a little girl, I was a fan of cute things. If it was pink, fuzzy, or covered with hearts, flowers, of magic princesses, I definitely was bugging my mom for whatever it was. Could it me that I have just transferred my girly tastes from childhood to the world of adult toys that I lose so much now? LOL, I feel kind of funny even equating the two ideas!

Ever since I first heard of rabbit vibrator, I knew it would be for me. I like the ones that have beads that churn around in the middle, but what turns me on the most is how the rabbit ears tickle and flick.
Clitoral stimulation is really what does it for me. I have two rabbits now- one is a little bit big, but one is slimmer since I don’t really need anything too giant inside me most of the time. They are so cute! I think that’s what appeals to me most. Even if it’s for sex now that I’m all grown up, I still buy the cute little bunny rabbit thing.

I understand what you’re going through. It might surprise some of you to hear this but even we lesbians worry about staying tight. And considering that we seem to use more toys on each other (we love our lesbian sex toys, for sure!) I can assure you that as long as you are using plenty of lube you shouldn’t notice too much stretching. My girlfriend loves sex toys, the bigger the better, and she is probably tighter than I am.

If you are really worried though there are plenty of petite sized toys you can try. We both love anal toys and anal beads are incredible sex toys that can be small and still have a HUGE impact. Anal beads start off small and get progressively bigger, so you only have to go as far as you feel comfortable; it’s more about the tantalizing pulsating feeling they create then the size that gets you off. You could also try clitoral stimulators like clit suckers or vibrating panties, both are awesome sex toys that require no penetration whatsoever.

For many individuals, sex toys like dildos often look intimidating. If you don’t like the look or feel of silicone and rubber dildos, consider artistic glass dildos for your sexual pleasure. Hand-blown by glass artists, each glass dildo is as unique as you are. And, they are so beautiful, you’ll want to show it off!

Glass dildos are more than just a pretty object. Glass has many attributes that make it a great material for sex toys. Unlike silicone and rubber, glass doesn’t get fissures or wear out. It is easier to clean and disinfect, and is less likely to harbor infection-causing bacteria. Glass dildos can be boiled in water for disinfection.

Artistic glass dildos, like the Phallix Glass 24 Karat Double Happiness, can also be refrigerated or heated for personal pleasure, making them the most adaptable dildos around. Combining artistry with functionality is what these beauties are all about—which is why they make great gifts. Treat yourself or your lover to a glass dong and you’ll never regret it.

Sometimes it seems like if you’ve seen one dildo or vibrator, you’ve seen them all. If you love your vibe, but long for more, you really should get yourself a waterproof vibe. Hot baths relieve tension, but getting off in a hot bath will have you feeling like you’ve been to a spa.

Not all vibrators are waterproof, so you’ll want to make sure to get one that is labeled as water safe. If you’re a lesbian who doesn’t much enjoy penetration, try the Waterproof Travel Kit. It offers multiple attachments, including a clit stimulator. But if you’re in the mood for some hot, wet, penetration, a waterproof rabbit vibe like our Water Gems- Crystal will turn your bath-time into G-spot time!

So you want to get your girlfriend a sex toy gift, but don’t know what to get her. If she has never really gotten into sex toys before, this could be a great chance to convince her that sex toys offer a great way to get off.

Personally, I really have to recommend a rabbit vibrator over a more standard shaft. This is no time to skimp on quality either. Higher quality sex toys last longer, thus creating less opportunity for the material to break down and harbor bacteria. For pleasure, quality, and price, I recommend Vibratex brand. If your lipstick lady isn’t very familiar with sex toys or penetration, go for a more compact version like Vibratex’s Little Kiss. If you know she likes a big, hard shaft, rock her world with the Vibratex Rabbit Pearl. If your lady really likes it big, Vibratex offers major power and pleasure with the Vibratex Thunder Cloud. She’ll know just how much you adore her, and will be thinking of you every time she cums.

Well, a lot of sex toys that are designed for penetration will have a pretty phallic shape just because a shaft is the easiest thing to fuck with. A good lesbian anal sex toy that look less like a dick but still allows for good pumping, fucking action is the Sensuous Rotator. Many people swear by anal beads as a means of adding some anal pleasure to all their sex play, but they don’t offer the same pumping experience. The Tantus Ripple Plug is a great butt plug that combines the butt plug sensation but is large enough for you to use it to fuck her ass.

Another option is to use a strap-on. Though strap-on dildos look a lot like dicks, consider getting a less-realistic looking one, like the Velveteen Harness with silicone dildo. The shaft is purple, which may help you feel more comfortable using it. For more options, try the Vac-U-Lock system. It allows you and your partner to customize the attachments, and try different things.

Personally, I like my butch to treat me like a lady. That means I want to be coddled and caressed tenderly when what I need is to be told that I’m beautiful and worthwhile. I also really like my butch to know when to fuck me hard!

A good butch should have a magic bag of lesbian sex toys, and she should always have it with her. I like my women to surprise me with new things – especially in new places! I love my butchy babe to use her strap-on on me (our current favorite is the iVibe Rabbit Harness, I love the vibration). A couple weeks ago, she surprised me at a dinner party with a set of Jelly Anal Beads– I put them in in the bathroom, and by the time we got home I was ready to be handled roughly!

My friend Scott and I have been masturbation buddies for years. You don’t hear of that kind of relationship much between a woman and a man, but it’s what we like. We are really friends first and foremost, but we love to get together, talk about sex, show-and-tell our latest sex toys, and pleasure ourselves as much as we want. Not too many people know about our special, delicious connection.

He has quite the porn collection. Two nights ago when I was over there, he brought out some Japanese movies. Some of them were pretty bizarre, some just plain hot. One I really liked had this girl who had three guys fucking her with some giant anal sex toys. I would never want something so large in my ass! But hey, it’s cool to watch someone else do it. Scott is really hot for Japanese women, so it wasn’t too long before I looked over and he was fondling his stiffening dick. I soon followed suit, and I was pumping my horny pussy for him to see. I love watching him, and watching the guys in the movie jerk themselves onto “Anal Woman” was a huge turn-on. I can’t wait until the next time I can get together and indulge with my very special friend.

I had a blast at this year’s NOLOSE Conference. For those who don’t know, it started out as a conference for “lesbians of size,” but now their tagline has expanded to “the conference for fat queer women & trans folks (and our female & trans allies!). I love being a big woman, and it’s great to play around with other large women who feel good about themselves.

I had the chance to play around with two free-lovin’ lesbians like myself on the last night of the conference. I had my ass done by the cute brunette – she had some great anal sex toys and went to work on me while I fondled and sucked with the other, also attractive younger member of our little, big threesome. I must have come three or four times, and was so shocked by how huge the biggest anal toy was that I had taken—I had no idea I had that capacity! We traded off for hours that night – lots of good old-fashioned oral and at least some anal sex toy play for each of us, too.

Aside from the good sex I happened into, I really do love this conference. It’s such a good combo of activism, dancing, workshops, and just catching up with friends. I do hope to keep in touch with my two new “friends,” though. Maybe we’ll hook up for a little mid-year action before the next conference.

I used to think that lesbians were pretty vanilla, but thankfully I have been meeting women lately who are changing my mind about the whole demographic. I have been a DP girl for a long time (double penetration), and it used to be hard to find women who wanted to play that way with me.

My current girlfriend is all about sex toys, which is a total godsend. We have several regular dildos of varying sizes, and a couple anal toys- I am particularly attached to the one anal vibrator. I swear, I’m in love with that thing. Anyway, it is a great feeling to do both at the same time – first, she fills me with the size dildo that I want to take that day—sometimes the large one, sometimes not if I’m not in the mood for it. Then comes the real treat—the feeling of her inserting the pulsating anal toy that drives me crazy.

Sometimes I think I could be one of those spokeswomen for anal sex and various toys for lesbians. It is definitely what I’m into—if I were willing to be out to the whole world, maybe I could be the next Annie Sprinkle, Tristan Taormino, or someone like that.