Toys For Lesbians

More and more worry about what we put in our bodies and how our choices effect our environment. People are out full force buying eco-friendly products, demanding organic foods, and really looking to go green. But what about when it comes to lesbian sex toys?

I have one word for you: phthalates. These phthalates can be found in a ton of products, everything from your perfume to your hair spray, even the toys your kids play with. And yes, they are found in the toys adults play with too! Phthalates exist in a weird grey area, we know that it can be absorbed into our bodies when we come into contact with it, and we know that it can leach into the environment as well. What is unclear is what effect this has on people and places. Europe is worried enough about phthalates that they’ve been outlawed in kid’s toys. Should they be in lesbian sex toys? It’s hard to say. There are not very many scientific studies done on sex toys.

Adult toys are following suit. There is a small but growing trend towards phthalates free sex toys. Along with this there is a movement towards reducing the packaging sex toys come in and making the package more recyclable. But that doesn’t mean you have to toss the toys you already own. Slipping a condom over a sex toy is a barrier to phthalates. If you replace the batteries in your pre-existing sex toys with rechargeable ones you’re taking a step towards making old lesbian sex toys greener. If you decide to toss your old lesbian sex toys make sure you send them to be recycled, not to sit in a landfill.

The single easiest, sexiest green thing to do is to shower together. You’re saving water and having some good clean fun. Your girlfriend and you can also buy lingerie made from eco-friendly materials. Buying sex toys made from more natural materials can help, too. Glass dildos are better for you and the environment compared to those made from jelly or other synthetic materials- it’s more recyclable, too.

My girlfriend has never used any kind of lesbian sex toy and she seemed a little squeamish about the idea when I brought it up. That’s when I brought home a lesbian strap on bullet style vibrator, which was my first lesbian sex toy.

She looked at it with doubt. I understood her feelings. It’s hard to think such a little thing can create much of an impact. It’s about three inches tall, a little silver lipstick shaped item, incased in a jelly like sleeve shaped like a butterfly. You can easily tuck this lesbian sex toy right into the palm of your hand. It’s an easy toy to underestimate but it’s also not a very intimidating toy, which is precisely why I bought it.

The greatest thing about a lesbian strap on clitoris vibrator is that once it’s on your hands are free to please your partner in other ways. My girlfriend had such an amazing experience the first time we used ours that she is completely re-evaluating her thoughts about other lesbian sex toys. I think we have some interesting nights ahead of us!

Nicole: My gf and I are pretty experienced with our lesbian sex toys but have been looking to something a little more . . . extreme. I love the idea of being fisted but (you already know what I’m going to ask) how much will it hurt?

MysticAngel: Anal fisting or vag? I’ve done, and liked, both but I’m really all about anal anything; anal toys, a strap on, a lesbian dildo, you name it.

Nicole: I was thinking anal, but is one easier than the other?
Newman: Anal is usually considered harder, if only because your body doesn’t make its own natural lubricant there.

MysticAngel: I don’t think that’s a factor. When it comes to fisting anything you’ll use a LOT of lube no matter what. I stay away from oil based lubes because I usually fuck after and the oil based lube can destroy condoms.

Daisychain: If you have tried a lot of lesbian sex toys and are comfortable with them you can probably be fisted and feel okay. Try it out first with toys to get use to the girth. They make some pretty huge lesbian strap on and huge lesbian dildo combination sets these days, so you should find something to work your way up to fisting with.

If you and your girlfriend are starting to get interested in anal sex you might be wondering where to begin. When it comes to anal sex its important to start slow and let your body get use to being explored. If you rush things it can hurt. The single best way to prepare for anal sex is to start off using lesbian anal toys.

Lesbian anal toys like a butt plug can be a great addition to your sex life. Once it is properly inserted your hands are free to do other things while the butt plug indirectly stimulates your g-spot. If you are working your way up to full-on lesbian anal sex a butt plug is a great way to learn what your body is comfortable with.

Once your body has adjusted to anal play you will probably want to move on to a full lesbian strap on. These consist of a dildo that fits into a harness so you girlfriend can use the dildo on you by hand or place it in the harness for anal sex.

The single most important thing you can do whether you are using lesbian anal sex toys or a lesbian strap on is that you can never use enough lube. Remember to apply lubricants generously and reapply it often.

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I have a straight girlfriend from high school who I talk with quite a bit about sex. Even though she’s married now she’s still pretty innocent, so she kinda likes hearing about the exploits of a bi girl like me. She is always full of questions, and I tell her all about my favorite sex toys, “how lesbians do it,” LOL, you know, anything she wants to know.

I know she has at least one vibrator or dildo, so sexy-sex isn’t completely unknown to her, at least. One day, though, I was pretty surprised when she said something about lube. She had been describing a sexual situation, and I suggested she might use a little. She said “If I use lube I might as well be a fuck doll.”

I felt so bad that she must have been thinking that it’s only for use when our natural juices haven’t made us ready yet. How much fun had she been missing?! I explained that lubricants are worth experimenting with. They feel delicious whether you’re masturbating, if you’re two lesbians using sex toys, a straight couple who wants a little extra wetness during penetration, or some other scenario I might find myself in

She called the other day to say she wanted to go toy shopping next time she visits, so I guess she’s learning!

B and L were talking to me last weekend at the festival, a bit too much, maybe. I’m not really into the TMI thing, but I have to admit, I do find their lives kind of interesting. I never knew lesbians liked sex toys all that much, so I guess I’ve been missing out by dating the wrong women for too long, or just generally keeping myself sheltered.

Anyway, they were going on about their Double Happiness. They were trying to describe how you get a two-headed dildo inside two women at the same time. It sounds acrobatic, but it must be ok if a lot of women do it. I’m pretty sure they aren’t contortionists. B especially was almost drooling talking about this new addition to their spicy life together. I have to admit she especially has got me curious.

I wonder if I could bring this up to T. I love her so much. I don’t want her to think I’m a lesbian sex toy freak or something. Lately I have been telling myself that I have been living under a rock, and that exploration is good. I know that eventually I will ask her if we might try a few items out ourselves. Maybe she’ll be as nervous as I am, or maybe she’ll wonder where this “new me” has been all her life.

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Q: What are the best lesbian sex toys? Are they different from straight womens’ sex toys?

A: Lesbian sex toys are sex toys that are designed for the female anatomy. While all sex toys can be used by whomever likes them, some lesbian sex toys have been designed with lesbian couples and lesbian sex in mind.

The Feeldoe “Fatboy” Dual Penetrator is designed to give maximum pleasure by working and fitting with the female body. It is meant to act similarly to a strap on, but with less hassle—there is no harness to get into. Lesbian strap ons are designed for women to wear, though they can be used to penetrate women or men. A great lesbian strap on is the iVibe Rabbit Harness—it allows for comfortable penetration and offers the clitoral stimulation of a rabbit vibrator. The best part is that it can be removed from the harness and used as a hand-held vibe.

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Q: What is the best way to stimulate a lesbian who doesn’t like penetration?

A: Many lesbians who do not enjoy penetration do enjoy clitoral stimulation. Licking the clit with your tongue is a great way to get her juices flowing. Playing with her clit using your fingers is another great way to play—she may enjoy a bit of vaginal fingering along with it.

There are many lesbian sex toys that will aid in bringing your beauty to amazing climax heights without penetration. The Hitachi Magic Wand has been touted for over 30 years as the best clitoral stimulator available. If she prefers more discreet toys, or you like to carry something in your pocket, check out the Beyond 2000 Ribbed Bullet. Discreet and powerful, this beauty will have your beauty moaning for more in no time.

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Q: Do all lesbians dislike penetration?

A: Not at all. In fact many lesbians enjoy both anal and vaginal penetration. Regardless of lifestyle choice, people like what they like in sex and generalizations cannot really be made about any one group.

There are some great lesbian dildos and vibrators available. The Tantus Silicone G-Force Wand is designed to hit your g-spot while allowing for maximum penetration and control. If you don’t like waiting for your turn, try the Vibrating Dual Penatrix Strap-On. It features two phallices, each with its own vibrating bullet. Use of a lesbian dildo or vibrator will extend the fun, and even help stave off bed death. Keeping each other happy in the bedroom is central to any intimate partnership, and trying new toys will keep things fresh and fun.
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Q: My new girlfriend wants me to fuck her ass. I’ve never done this before—how do I give lesbian anal?

A: When giving anal, it is a good idea to start simple. You can get into the mood of it by starting with your tongue. You might begin licking her clit, then move down. Using a good anal lube, like Astroglide, feel free to finger her ass, just like you’d finger her vagina.

Once you’re both raring to go, try inserting an anal probe dildo, such as the Fun Flex Anal Teaser. If she wants something a bit bigger and more hardcore, the Tantus Silicone Pro-Touch Vibe might be right for her. If your hottie likes dual penetration, give it to her good with the Over and Under Vibe—it is designed to fit into her ass and pussy simultaneously.
If what she’s craving is a good hard ass fuck, a lesbian strap-on should do the trick. The Velveteen Harness with Strap-On Dildo should be comfortable for the wearer and offers good control, so you can give it to her just the way she likes it.

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Q: I want to get a strap-on to use with my girlfriend. How do I know which lesbian strap-on is right for us?

A: The two things you want to look for in a good lesbian strap-on are harness fit and cock size. The harness should adjust and be of a material that you find comfortable. The Velveteen Harness with Silicone Dildo is soft and pliant, and the wearer should find it to be comfortable against the skin.
Cock size is also important when buying a strap-on. You should consider if you are using it for anal or vaginal penetration, or both. It is also important to consider your partner’s size preferences and experience. Anal beginners need a smaller dildo than advanced anal players. The Vac-U-Lock system allows for customizing your strap-on to fit both partners’ needs. You can pick out a harness that is comfortable for you, and then buy multiple dildos that will fit easily into the harness. This system allows you to use one harness for all your strap-on needs, and you can get more attachments in the future as your sex play wants evolve.

When it comes to lesbian sex toys the most popular is probably the lesbian dildo. But, if you’ve taken a look I’m sure you know, there are so many choices it’s hard to know what the best lesbian dildo is for you. Some things to think about when shopping for a lesbian dildo:

Size: Lesbian dildos come in many, many sizes. Get one too small and it might not do much for you (unless you are very good at maneuvering it to hit your g spot). One that is too big will hurt. Experiment before buying. Using your fingers to gauge how deep you like to be penetrated and how much girth is comfortable for you can help you decide what size lesbian dildo is the right size.

Material: Dildos can be made from just about anything; rubber, silicone, glass, ect. Silicone retains body heat when you use it, is fairly soft to the touch, and is easy to clean so it is one of the more popular materials for lesbian dildos to be made out of.

Use: Are planning on using your dildo by holding it in your hand or do you think you want a lesbian dildo that can be put into a harness to keep your hands free? A lesbian strap on (harness and dildo set) is a little more pricey but is a very versatile lesbian sex toy because the dildo can usually be detached from the harness and used by hand.

Whether you call it tribadism, scissoring, tribbing, bumping or any one of the dozens of different slang terms out there, there is a lot to say for it! Tribadism is when you and your partner rub your vulvas against each other in a form of mutual masturbation. Often times you rub vulva to vulva, but the practice can include any body parts, and any positions needed to reach those body parts, which get you off.

Tribadism is especially popular with lesbians who don’t like being penetrated. But that doesn’t mean it can’t be one more technique used by you and your partner even if you both like penetration and use something like a lesbian strap on during your love making.

The other common misconception about tribadism is that it cannot be done in use with lesbian sex toys. Many lesbians enjoy using anal toys like butt plugs at the same time they engage in tribadism because a putt plug does not need to be manipulated to get pleasure out of it. Once you insert the butt plug anal toy you are free to do whatever else you like. The anal toys can indirectly stimulate your g spot while you get clitoral stimulation from the tribadism.