Breaking through the barrier
Tuesday, September 30th, 2008I have been perusing the internet for the latest sex toys for gay women like me. I have quite an assortment of harnesses with various dildos and the O-rings to make them fit. I looked at the vibrators shaped like everything from cocks to bunny rabbits, and I even have a few of the anal toys too, though I admit I could stand to learn more in the Backdoor Dept. But what drew my attention were the latex dental dams. Finally, I am preparing myself mentally to try it.
It isn’t easy for me to think about eating latex. When I came flaming out of the closet, I wanted to be a completely uninhibited lesbian. I wanted the sweet taste of a woman, not of rubber. But since I am not monogamous and my primary partner and I don’t plan to be soon, we have talked more about safer sex. I bought a few dental dams. I still find them strange, but I am beginning to experience them as erotic, as an enjoyable variation along the spectrum of lovemaking.
So far, I have spent some time exploring them myself. I tried one by putting a little lube on myself, placing it over my pussy, and just playing around with how it felt to touch myself. It was different, but still a phenomenally intense feeling with the dam between me and my Hitachi Magic Wand. I loved that. I am sure tonight or tomorrow I will finally have the opportunity to go down on my girlfriend with one. I hope it will feel like less of a barrier and more of a new kind of pleasure.