Toys For Lesbians

Sometimes it seems like if you’ve seen one dildo or vibrator, you’ve seen them all. If you love your vibe, but long for more, you really should get yourself a waterproof vibe. Hot baths relieve tension, but getting off in a hot bath will have you feeling like you’ve been to a spa.

Not all vibrators are waterproof, so you’ll want to make sure to get one that is labeled as water safe. If you’re a lesbian who doesn’t much enjoy penetration, try the Waterproof Travel Kit. It offers multiple attachments, including a clit stimulator. But if you’re in the mood for some hot, wet, penetration, a waterproof rabbit vibe like our Water Gems- Crystal will turn your bath-time into G-spot time!

So you want to get your girlfriend a sex toy gift, but don’t know what to get her. If she has never really gotten into sex toys before, this could be a great chance to convince her that sex toys offer a great way to get off.

Personally, I really have to recommend a rabbit vibrator over a more standard shaft. This is no time to skimp on quality either. Higher quality sex toys last longer, thus creating less opportunity for the material to break down and harbor bacteria. For pleasure, quality, and price, I recommend Vibratex brand. If your lipstick lady isn’t very familiar with sex toys or penetration, go for a more compact version like Vibratex’s Little Kiss. If you know she likes a big, hard shaft, rock her world with the Vibratex Rabbit Pearl. If your lady really likes it big, Vibratex offers major power and pleasure with the Vibratex Thunder Cloud. She’ll know just how much you adore her, and will be thinking of you every time she cums.

Well, a lot of sex toys that are designed for penetration will have a pretty phallic shape just because a shaft is the easiest thing to fuck with. A good lesbian anal sex toy that look less like a dick but still allows for good pumping, fucking action is the Sensuous Rotator. Many people swear by anal beads as a means of adding some anal pleasure to all their sex play, but they don’t offer the same pumping experience. The Tantus Ripple Plug is a great butt plug that combines the butt plug sensation but is large enough for you to use it to fuck her ass.

Another option is to use a strap-on. Though strap-on dildos look a lot like dicks, consider getting a less-realistic looking one, like the Velveteen Harness with silicone dildo. The shaft is purple, which may help you feel more comfortable using it. For more options, try the Vac-U-Lock system. It allows you and your partner to customize the attachments, and try different things.

Personally, I like my butch to treat me like a lady. That means I want to be coddled and caressed tenderly when what I need is to be told that I’m beautiful and worthwhile. I also really like my butch to know when to fuck me hard!

A good butch should have a magic bag of lesbian sex toys, and she should always have it with her. I like my women to surprise me with new things – especially in new places! I love my butchy babe to use her strap-on on me (our current favorite is the iVibe Rabbit Harness, I love the vibration). A couple weeks ago, she surprised me at a dinner party with a set of Jelly Anal Beads– I put them in in the bathroom, and by the time we got home I was ready to be handled roughly!

For many lesbian couples, the idea of spending a vacation in an environment where they may be persecuted for their relationship preferences doesn’t seem like a vacation at all. If you and your lady are ready to get away for a relaxing vacation, consider traveling with a company that has your needs and comfort in mind.

Many travel companies offer cruises especially for gay and lesbian couples. These are often different from cruises designed for lesbian singles. On a lesbian couples cruise, you can relax and be yourself, knowing that nobody is going to be offended by your choice of date. The easiest way to find a lesbian couples cruise is to work with a trusted travel agent. Many travel agents will have information regarding the cruises available and what options they include, so consider your travel agent your best friend when choosing the perfect trip for you and your loved one.

Most major cruise companies do not offer cruises designed for any specific group unless booked through an organization. Many gay/lesbian groups, like mygayweb.com partner with cruise lines like Carnival to charter gay and lesbian-only excursions. There are a few companies, like Zenith Travel, that specialize in gay and lesbian trips.

If you can’t find a lesbian cruise that fits your time frame, location, or budget, keep in mind that many major cruise lines do not discriminate. Carnival Cruises offers gay and lesbian “meet and greets” on every cruise, and many of their ships offer gay/lesbian clubs. The idea is that you should feel comfortable taking any cruise you want, but selecting a cruise for the people on it is just as important as choosing where to go.

My friend Scott and I have been masturbation buddies for years. You don’t hear of that kind of relationship much between a woman and a man, but it’s what we like. We are really friends first and foremost, but we love to get together, talk about sex, show-and-tell our latest sex toys, and pleasure ourselves as much as we want. Not too many people know about our special, delicious connection.

He has quite the porn collection. Two nights ago when I was over there, he brought out some Japanese movies. Some of them were pretty bizarre, some just plain hot. One I really liked had this girl who had three guys fucking her with some giant anal sex toys. I would never want something so large in my ass! But hey, it’s cool to watch someone else do it. Scott is really hot for Japanese women, so it wasn’t too long before I looked over and he was fondling his stiffening dick. I soon followed suit, and I was pumping my horny pussy for him to see. I love watching him, and watching the guys in the movie jerk themselves onto “Anal Woman” was a huge turn-on. I can’t wait until the next time I can get together and indulge with my very special friend.

In case you were wondering about the adventures of my anus (and you know you were, LOL), I have to tell you that I am reaching new heights! I knew that guys were supposed to like anal play, and I am so glad I am exploring it more and more. Now I can’t get enough.

I just bought this thing called the “Back Door Rotator” and it is totally awesome. It’s like the king of anal sex toys – it has six speeds, rotating beads, and it’s pretty huge for my little butt. I used to put something inside me once in a while and I once had a girlfriend who liked to finger me. I started with a couple smaller butt plugs about 4 months ago and the sensations just kept getting deeper. Sometimes it’s a confidence thing, I think, to allow yourself to get to the next level of pleasure.

I’m often a happy solo artist when it comes to sex, and some of my absolute, most extreme earth-shattering jackoff sessions have been with my new anal toy deep up inside me. Where will I go next from here? I can’t wait to find out. Stay tuned…

I had a blast at this year’s NOLOSE Conference. For those who don’t know, it started out as a conference for “lesbians of size,” but now their tagline has expanded to “the conference for fat queer women & trans folks (and our female & trans allies!). I love being a big woman, and it’s great to play around with other large women who feel good about themselves.

I had the chance to play around with two free-lovin’ lesbians like myself on the last night of the conference. I had my ass done by the cute brunette – she had some great anal sex toys and went to work on me while I fondled and sucked with the other, also attractive younger member of our little, big threesome. I must have come three or four times, and was so shocked by how huge the biggest anal toy was that I had taken—I had no idea I had that capacity! We traded off for hours that night – lots of good old-fashioned oral and at least some anal sex toy play for each of us, too.

Aside from the good sex I happened into, I really do love this conference. It’s such a good combo of activism, dancing, workshops, and just catching up with friends. I do hope to keep in touch with my two new “friends,” though. Maybe we’ll hook up for a little mid-year action before the next conference.

I used to think that lesbians were pretty vanilla, but thankfully I have been meeting women lately who are changing my mind about the whole demographic. I have been a DP girl for a long time (double penetration), and it used to be hard to find women who wanted to play that way with me.

My current girlfriend is all about sex toys, which is a total godsend. We have several regular dildos of varying sizes, and a couple anal toys- I am particularly attached to the one anal vibrator. I swear, I’m in love with that thing. Anyway, it is a great feeling to do both at the same time – first, she fills me with the size dildo that I want to take that day—sometimes the large one, sometimes not if I’m not in the mood for it. Then comes the real treat—the feeling of her inserting the pulsating anal toy that drives me crazy.

Sometimes I think I could be one of those spokeswomen for anal sex and various toys for lesbians. It is definitely what I’m into—if I were willing to be out to the whole world, maybe I could be the next Annie Sprinkle, Tristan Taormino, or someone like that.

More and more worry about what we put in our bodies and how our choices effect our environment. People are out full force buying eco-friendly products, demanding organic foods, and really looking to go green. But what about when it comes to lesbian sex toys?

I have one word for you: phthalates. These phthalates can be found in a ton of products, everything from your perfume to your hair spray, even the toys your kids play with. And yes, they are found in the toys adults play with too! Phthalates exist in a weird grey area, we know that it can be absorbed into our bodies when we come into contact with it, and we know that it can leach into the environment as well. What is unclear is what effect this has on people and places. Europe is worried enough about phthalates that they’ve been outlawed in kid’s toys. Should they be in lesbian sex toys? It’s hard to say. There are not very many scientific studies done on sex toys.

Adult toys are following suit. There is a small but growing trend towards phthalates free sex toys. Along with this there is a movement towards reducing the packaging sex toys come in and making the package more recyclable. But that doesn’t mean you have to toss the toys you already own. Slipping a condom over a sex toy is a barrier to phthalates. If you replace the batteries in your pre-existing sex toys with rechargeable ones you’re taking a step towards making old lesbian sex toys greener. If you decide to toss your old lesbian sex toys make sure you send them to be recycled, not to sit in a landfill.

The single easiest, sexiest green thing to do is to shower together. You’re saving water and having some good clean fun. Your girlfriend and you can also buy lingerie made from eco-friendly materials. Buying sex toys made from more natural materials can help, too. Glass dildos are better for you and the environment compared to those made from jelly or other synthetic materials- it’s more recyclable, too.