Toys For Lesbians

I had a blast at this year’s NOLOSE Conference. For those who don’t know, it started out as a conference for “lesbians of size,” but now their tagline has expanded to “the conference for fat queer women & trans folks (and our female & trans allies!). I love being a big woman, and it’s great to play around with other large women who feel good about themselves.

I had the chance to play around with two free-lovin’ lesbians like myself on the last night of the conference. I had my ass done by the cute brunette – she had some great anal sex toys and went to work on me while I fondled and sucked with the other, also attractive younger member of our little, big threesome. I must have come three or four times, and was so shocked by how huge the biggest anal toy was that I had taken—I had no idea I had that capacity! We traded off for hours that night – lots of good old-fashioned oral and at least some anal sex toy play for each of us, too.

Aside from the good sex I happened into, I really do love this conference. It’s such a good combo of activism, dancing, workshops, and just catching up with friends. I do hope to keep in touch with my two new “friends,” though. Maybe we’ll hook up for a little mid-year action before the next conference.

I used to think that lesbians were pretty vanilla, but thankfully I have been meeting women lately who are changing my mind about the whole demographic. I have been a DP girl for a long time (double penetration), and it used to be hard to find women who wanted to play that way with me.

My current girlfriend is all about sex toys, which is a total godsend. We have several regular dildos of varying sizes, and a couple anal toys- I am particularly attached to the one anal vibrator. I swear, I’m in love with that thing. Anyway, it is a great feeling to do both at the same time – first, she fills me with the size dildo that I want to take that day—sometimes the large one, sometimes not if I’m not in the mood for it. Then comes the real treat—the feeling of her inserting the pulsating anal toy that drives me crazy.

Sometimes I think I could be one of those spokeswomen for anal sex and various toys for lesbians. It is definitely what I’m into—if I were willing to be out to the whole world, maybe I could be the next Annie Sprinkle, Tristan Taormino, or someone like that.

Many lesbians feel like all the sex toys out there are made for straight couples and that all the anal toys are made with gay male couples in mind, but the truth is that there is a growing market of lesbian sex toys available on the market and that plenty of other sex toys can be used and enjoyed by lesbians as well.

Anal toys for lesbians aren’t usually specifically for lesbians, but that doesn’t mean you can’t find one you and your girlfriend will like. Anal toys come in a variety of styles, but just as importantly, they come in a variety of materials and colors so you can find the one that suits you best.

Anal toys like butt plugs can be a simple unobtrusive way to add to your usual love making. Once the butt plug is inserted you are free to engage in tribadism, vaginal or clitoral stimulation, or whatever else you can think up. The key to making your lesbian anal toys as fun to use as possible is the addition of ample amounts of lubrication. Because the anus does not self lubricate like the vagina will you will probably have to apply lube several times in the course of your play.